The sheer power of commercialism has somehow seeped into relationships and it’s infecting the minds of lots of men. These men will go into relationships for the pure pleasure of the aesthetic experience. They will want to be with hot women for the love of s3xual pleasure, but not really for love or companionship. There are numerous instances of women just being used by men as s3xual objects. These women are deceived and are led to believe that they are caught in a genuine love affair even when they’re not. It will take a while for these ladies to realize that they are only victims or prey in the game of s3xual scoring; and by then, it will be too late. The men will have had their fun and the women will have nothing good to show for it.
Not to say that casual s3x is wrong. Of course there’s nothing wrong with having two adults engage in consensual s3x with one another. It’s an innate carnal need in all human beings to engage in pleasure. What’s wrong in this equation is the deception factor. Men shouldn’t be manipulating and treating women as objects without feelings. Men shouldn’t be in the business of deceiving women and abusing their emotions for their own personal gain. However, the fact remains that there are a lot of shameless guys out there who just don’t care about the universal rules of human decency. There will be a lot of men who will deceive their women just to get them in the sack. And in the end, it’s only the woman who ends up feeling used, abused, and emotionally dejected.
That’s why it’s important for women to always stay vigilant. You have to make sure to guard your heart from these kinds of men. If the only kinds of relationships that you’re looking for are ones that are based on love, and not lust, then you have to stay away from these abusive men who only want s3x. You have to be able to spot them out in the crowd and avoid them like the plague. So how do you know whether a man’s feelings are real? How do you know if all he wants is to have you in his bedroom? Well, there are some signs that you can be on the lookout for.
1. He rushes into saying that he loves you.
He wants you to believe that he’s being vulnerable to you so that you can be vulnerable to him in return. He wants to trick you into thinking that he has genuine feelings for you right off the bat even though he hasn’t had the proper time to let those feelings develop into something real at all. It’s all an act that he’s trying to put on just to get you in the sack.
2. He’s a little too touchy a little too early in the relationship.
You can tell just how much a man wants you s3xually with how touchy he is. Ordinarily, at the start of the relationship, he would keep his hands to himself out of respect for any boundaries you may have. He would only be touching you if you expressed or let it be known that you’re okay with it.