3. He doesn’t make an effort to find out more about your life.

If he doesn’t express an interest beyond how you look, then it’s all about the aesthetics for him. He only finds you hot and he couldn’t care less about what your soul or personality is made of.

4. He doesn’t make any efforts to make his life better.

If a person were truly in love with you, he would be inspired to actually make himself a better man. If it seems like he’s still stuck where he was when you first started dating, then you can bet that he really isn’t as in love with you as you think. He doesn’t see a future in the relationship with you and that’s why he isn’t really trying too hard to make himself better.