To put it bluntly, men aren’t necessarily known to be the more observant of the two genders. Of course, that isn’t to say that they are virtually incapable of absorbing vital information in their lives at all. On the contrary, men can be very attentive when it suits them. But that’s just the thing: they only pay attention whenever it suits them. They don’t really like to pay attention to the things that interest them; especially when it comes to their women. A lot of women are a little too self-conscious around their men. They make the mistake of believing that men actually pay attention to the fact that they repeat outfits every once in a while or that their makeup is terribly executed. That is rarely ever the case.
Again, ladies, it’s important for you to remember that men are only observant of the things that really matter to them. A lot of things that are a source of stress, worry, and insecurity in your life may not necessarily matter much to your man. You are bringing a lot of unnecessary stress upon yourself by thinking that your man is judging you for something when in reality, he just doesn’t care. You have to understand that you are your own worst critic all the time. You are the quickest one to point out your own personal imperfections. You are the one who is going to judge yourself most harshly. Don’t fall into the trap of just assuming your man will judge you the way that you choose to judge yourself. That is rarely ever the case. Here are a few simple examples of things that you care too much about even though your man doesn’t really notice them.
1. Your butt’s stretch marks.
Men like girls’ butts. There’s just no denying it. It doesn’t matter how “flawed” you think your but is. Your man just won’t care. You just have to carry yourself with confidence, and he’s going to get turned on. Remember that men always respond well to confidence.
2. Your makeup prowess.
Men don’t really care about how on-point your eyeliner game is. They won’t notice just how strong your contouring is going to be. They really won’t pay much attention to whether your choice of blush matches the shade of your lipstick. These are just details that are going to escape your man’s attention even though they are practically life and death for you.
3. Your choice of food at a restaurant.
Go ahead and order that burger with a side of fries if you want. Stop being so self-conscious about what you order around your man. If he truly loved you, he wouldn’t really make a big deal about you wanting to indulge every once in a while.
4. Your extra pounds.
You are allowed to gain a pound or two every once in a while. While it’s important for you to keep physically fit for the sake of your health, you shouldn’t treat it so seriously. It’s okay for you to lay off and let yourself go sometimes. Gaining a pound or two isn’t going to be the end of the world.
5. Your choice of shoes.
Men don’t pay attention to your shoes unless you choose to rock those new Jordans or Boosts. If you’re just breaking your brain trying to figure out what stilettos you are going to be sporting that night, then you should know that you are the only one who really cares.
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